Guiding as a river couple isn’t just a catchy phrase—it’s a unique way of working and living. Whether on the water or off, blending your personal and professional lives requires care, teamwork, and a strong foundation.
The Perils and Promises of Dating at Work
In any workplace, dating a coworker is risky. In the guiding world, these challenges are even more pronounced. You may have heard the familiar story or even experienced it yourself. Meeting someone on the river last season might spark a sun-drunk love affair full of excitement and shared adventures. But as the summer fades, that initial magic can quickly disappear.
Our Journey: Friendship Before Romance
Unlike those fleeting summer romances, Larz and I were friends long before we became a couple. We built our relationship on years of running rivers together. When we first faced a season of working side-by-side, we learned a crucial lesson: figure it out. This meant putting our job first and becoming a reliable team for our crew, especially when things got challenging.
Lessons Learned on the River
Choosing to date a coworker means committing to a partnership that extends beyond the personal. It means being there for each other when challenges arise and learning the art of teamwork. The experience of guiding as a river couple taught us that supporting one another professionally is just as important as celebrating personal victories.
Cherished Moments on the Water
Despite the challenges, there are plenty of moments when we get to enjoy the magic of being together. Whether it’s catching a sunset at deadhead, running the river trail, or fishing by the camp’s eddy when we’re off duty, these are the memories that make the hard work worthwhile.
A Life Beyond the Rapids
Our strong friendship and shared history on the river laid the foundation for a successful partnership. Today, our “river romance” isn’t just a summer fling—it’s the beginning of a lifetime journey. Living and working in Missoula has given us a truly rewarding life.
Final Thoughts
Dating your coworker might seem like a recipe for disaster, but if you find the right person, working together can bring incredible rewards. For those ready to take the plunge, remember that the key is building a relationship on trust, support, and shared passion for the work—just like guiding as a river couple.
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